Times when you could hear a romantic compliment like: “You have the most beautiful eyes I’ve ever seen,” the minute you step your foot in to a bar have long passed. Nowadays, men have difficulty expressing their feelings. It is very rare for a man to use words to show you that he likes you. However, we have a great weapon to understand if a guy likes us. It’s called body language. So, here are the first signs, or better say, erotic signals, that will help you understand that a man has fallen for you at first sight.
Signal 1: He raises an eyebrow. If his impulsive reaction when he first sees you is to raise abruptly his eyebrows, it means that you’ve got his attention! Congratulations!
Signal 2: He faintly opens his mouth. You can’t stop looking at him and finally he looks back at you. Have his lips moved? Maybe faintly opened? He might not resist to your charm no more!
Signal 3: He tries to get your attention: Does he believe that he is the center of the world? If he doesn’t, why does he act like he does? Don’t worry; if he starts overreacting, like talking louder, or trying to be really descriptive when he tells a story (interesting or not, but who cares) he’s just trying to get your attention. So, he’s trying to make a difference. Finally, if he changes his seat to can see you better, you know you’ve got him!
Signal 4: He cares about his appearance. Guys are not like us. They don’t care how they look, especially when they are already outside, drinking beers with their buddies. So, if you catch him straightening his shirt or combing his hair with his fingers, it doesn’t mean he is weird, it means that he wants to look good for you.
Signal 5: He won’t stop staring at you. Don’t start feeling uncomfortable. His purpose isn’t to see if you have a few extra pounds on your hips; he wants to make sure you know he is interested in you.
Signal 6: He sits “offensively”. What does this mean? He slightly opens his legs (as much the opening of his shoulders). His puts his fingers in his belt and inclines his head towards you.
This is the last signal you can get from him before you can start impressing him with your marvelous self. Ready? Fight! The games have just begun!