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What Men won’t Tell you, But you can Tell using Body Language Tricks

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Times when you could hear a romantic compliment like: “You have the most beautiful eyes I’ve ever seen,” the minute you step your foot in to a bar have long passed. Nowadays, men have difficulty expressing their feelings. It is very rare for a man to use words to show you that he likes you. However, we have a great weapon to understand if a guy likes us. It’s called body language. So, here are the first signs, or better say, erotic signals, that will help you understand that a man has fallen for you at first sight.

Signal 1: He raises an eyebrow. If his impulsive reaction when he first sees you is to raise abruptly his eyebrows, it means that you’ve got his attention! Congratulations!

Signal 2: He faintly opens his mouth. You can’t stop looking at him and finally he looks back at you. Have his lips moved? Maybe faintly opened? He might not resist to your charm no more!

Signal 3: He tries to get your attention: Does he believe that he is the center of the world? If he doesn’t, why does he act like he does? Don’t worry; if he starts overreacting, like talking louder, or trying to be really descriptive when he tells a story (interesting or not, but who cares) he’s just trying to get your attention. So, he’s trying to make a difference. Finally, if he changes his seat to can see you better, you know you’ve got him!

Signal 4: He cares about his appearance. Guys are not like us. They don’t care how they look, especially when they are already outside, drinking beers with their buddies. So, if you catch him straightening his shirt or combing his hair with his fingers, it doesn’t mean he is weird, it means that he wants to look good for you.

Signal 5: He won’t stop staring at you. Don’t start feeling uncomfortable. His purpose isn’t to see if you have a few extra pounds on your hips; he wants to make sure you know he is interested in you.

Signal 6: He sits “offensively”. What does this mean? He slightly opens his legs (as much the opening of his shoulders). His puts his fingers in his belt and inclines his head towards you.
This is the last signal you can get from him before you can start impressing him with your marvelous self. Ready? Fight! The games have just begun!

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Comments (91)

  1. kimmy Saturday - 01 / 03 / 2008 Reply
    haha this sound very interesting! Nice one
  2. Sophie Saturday - 05 / 12 / 2009 Reply
    Hooray.He likes me!!!!
    • sophia Sunday - 30 / 05 / 2010 Reply
      same i just read this and i was woundering why he was doin this n now im like omg at school im gonna be so happy !! x
    • lover173 Tuesday - 11 / 01 / 2011 Reply
      my crush knows that i like him and i dont think he likes me cause the first time i knew that he knew that i like him he steped 5 tiles back from me cause he thought i was going to do somthing but he is nice funny and cute and careing but i never told him that he is cute funny and every thing else i said does any one have advice if yes can you do it soon as possible.
  3. Samantha Friday - 11 / 12 / 2009 Reply
    no matter what i try.. nothings ever gonna work. :/
    • amanda Thursday - 18 / 03 / 2010 Reply
      yeah were same it won't work.....hm............ maybe u just be urself he will think ur pretty... or cool....... juz be urself..........
    • AYW Sunday - 11 / 04 / 2010 Reply
      very true...For me it all started with those secret glances at workplace and soon we started meeting secretly outside. He would treasure every ticket to the oprah,concert, park that we visited together, try to rub his arm against me sub-consciously, send me msgs at the dead of nite as if he wanted to be a part of my every waking and non-waking moment. But no hard i would try,he would just not blurt out those 3 simple words from his mouth...well i know he likes me, how difficult is it to say so??
    • me Wednesday - 28 / 07 / 2010 Reply
      dont be so down! It'll work out! don't worry!
    • Choksondik Friday - 18 / 02 / 2011 Reply
      i agree with you soo much
  4. Kendal Thursday - 17 / 12 / 2009 Reply
    Ahhh why does it have to be so hard, why cant they just say it
    • lover173 Tuesday - 11 / 01 / 2011 Reply
      i know right
  5. anconda Monday - 21 / 12 / 2009 Reply
    well i fancyed a boy i saw his body language..... then he told me the truth.... and i told hhim.......
  6. serena Friday - 15 / 01 / 2010 Reply
    guys r hard 2 understand!!!!!
  7. jacquie Friday - 29 / 01 / 2010 Reply
    O.M.G he likes me!!!! thankx
    • amanda Thursday - 18 / 03 / 2010 Reply
      how........tell me.....
  8. chloe Monday - 01 / 02 / 2010 Reply
    This is good but I'm confused : the bit about talking louder and being more descriptive, that's what I find myself doing around him. He's my best friend. But no matter what I do, he'll never feel the same way. I missed my chance, and I'll never get it back :'(
    • Ashyy Tuesday - 09 / 11 / 2010 Reply
      i know what you mean. I am ni the same boat. He is my best friend. I love him more than there are stars in the sky. But i lost my chance.
  9. Intan Thursday - 04 / 02 / 2010 Reply
    I hope i'm not so overconfidents tht i catch some signal of a man around me based on the above he likes me but i'm still hesitate why he hasnt said me.. So what should i do??
  10. missing the past Thursday - 11 / 02 / 2010 Reply
    this sounds like bullshit to me...if a guy likes you he will tell you..if he's not interested believe me girls ull know...he won't come around nemore.
  11. Hailey Tuesday - 16 / 02 / 2010 Reply
    Haha, he likes me... but sadly, he is in a relationship. :(
    • Megan Thursday - 29 / 04 / 2010 Reply
      Eh, same here :( , I dont really get it though, he never seems to even talk to his girlfriend, I guess its better if were just friends
  12. MLo Sunday - 21 / 02 / 2010 Reply
    omg im soo mad one second he likes me next he oesnt but i relly waanna be wiit him n then he trys to jump into realationships it like give me time!!!! n wen we aint together "goin out" he nsuddenly i txtin some1 ele n flirtin wit them grrr i need helpp please email me at supersplashbabe@gmx.com please i need some advie!!!:D
  13. emmarie Tuesday - 09 / 03 / 2010 Reply
    i dont get it. he does all of these things but he has a girl friend... and he barly ever talks to me... but when he does he always looks at me. even if we're in a group of people. and i REALLY like him. i need help!
    • emmarie Tuesday - 09 / 03 / 2010 Reply
      (adding on to my comment) like in choir (he skipped class to go there) my friend told me tht he was looking into the mirror at me while we were singing, and them i was standing next to her later and he tried to throw a stick at her... idk if tht means anything but just thought i should say it just incase. and he always looks at me in geometry... again... I NEED HELP! emmariebuchanan@aol.com if u have advice. oh and im not tht great at flirting either. lol.
  14. Katie Wednesday - 10 / 03 / 2010 Reply
    You see, these are very helpful tips to someone who is dating someone for the very first or second time. On about the third date, however, these things all change. To take these tips for granted is to suggest that he will want your attention, or shower you with his, during every moment of every date. It isn't like that. He will gradually become more comfortable and handle certain things, like his appearance, before seeing you.
  15. omama Sunday - 14 / 03 / 2010 Reply
    if he loves he will tell you , donot count on hints , if he loves he will tell you .
  16. amanda Thursday - 18 / 03 / 2010 Reply
    don't be shy to tell the one u <3 so.....tell him d truth.....when he knows he'll fall in <3 with you...
  17. priyanka sharma (tia Tuesday - 30 / 03 / 2010 Reply
    hello.. plz help me.... i love a guy.. he is too shy to exprss... i dont know how to make him express his love to me truly... plz reply and help me
  18. Joanne Thursday - 15 / 04 / 2010 Reply
    here it says that they dond come out with words like you have the most beautiful eyes anymore! but guess what thats what he told me the 1st 5min we met! and after a month he is still showing off my eyes to his friends. it's so nice. he does all of the above but he still says he needs to know me better before rushing into a relationship.
  19. janel Thursday - 15 / 04 / 2010 Reply
    do you have more? well i guess i need more body language to figure it out jaja
  20. Amelia Wednesday - 05 / 05 / 2010 Reply
    I am going to become a Buddhist nun... Men are all too hard basket !
  21. Cassi Wednesday - 30 / 06 / 2010 Reply
    i never really thought about the little things like that, but i am takin a mental note of them as of now.. =)
  22. anhi Saturday - 03 / 07 / 2010 Reply
    is it the same when he tries to get ur attention by playing tennis like a pro against his students (teenagers) and even take his shirt off right next to me, although we have seen us 2 times? I'm not that sure xD
  23. monea Tuesday - 20 / 07 / 2010 Reply
    Ughh ii realli lke this guy &&he sed he wanna cuff mhe &&we kiss outside he shows mhe 2 hies fam lke we go out places but now we goout &&ii jus hope tht ididnt make him ask mhe ((IDK ii did thou))
  24. jessiesmith Monday - 16 / 08 / 2010 Reply
    well. theres this guy i realy like but i cant tell if hes the one or just a silly crush but i really like him almost love him and hes sometimes staring at me and hes always tryng to get me to laugh and ive been following the tips and laughing and evertything but i NEED HELP !!!!!!!
  25. lelli Wednesday - 01 / 09 / 2010 Reply
    i love someone n he did all these things before.. the problem is that we r sooo close friends n i feel he loves me as his sis sometimes...any suggetions?
  26. rachell Wednesday - 29 / 09 / 2010 Reply
    this isn't a place to come on and vent about your issuses. it's not everyone elses problem that you can't get a guy to like you. these hints are bullshit because every guy is different
  27. Elizabeth Friday - 01 / 10 / 2010 Reply
    Hmm, i'm gonna look out for those, thanks!
  28. Evangeline Friday - 15 / 10 / 2010 Reply
    Ugh. And they say girls are difficult to understand.
  29. Alice Friday - 29 / 10 / 2010 Reply
    Ughhh.... It's so hard to tell if he likes me you know? Because he's always looking at me and stuff but it's so hard to make him spill words when he's around me. His friends mock him in front of me and they're always pushing him to talk with me. But he's so slow at it that I have no idea if it's because he doesn't like me or because he's shy or something. HELP?
  30. Megan Wednesday - 03 / 11 / 2010 Reply
    Guess this just goes to show that every guy is different, and that the people writing guides for us are really providing the tools to find out more on our own.
  31. April and nicole Wednesday - 10 / 11 / 2010 Reply
    What if we know that they like us but they do different gestures like play with our hands, kiss us on the forehead and cheek like nicole for example likes this guy and like its not obvious he likes her too but he don't do all that stuff yeah he has done a couple of things but not all of it and april for example really likes this guy and he dose everything to get her attention i guess all guys are different
    • breana Sunday - 21 / 11 / 2010 Reply
      well i really like this guy and he has played with my hands before while we were holding hands, and he has kissed me on the cheek before, but it turned out that he really didnt like me at all, and it really hurt me. but i dunno if that is a completely different situation from yours or not. :/
  32. Madelaine Monday - 15 / 11 / 2010 Reply
    I feel kind of sick,he obviously likes my friend. (I relized this fact before I read this)
  33. Confused... Thursday - 18 / 11 / 2010 Reply
    I heard this guy talking bout asking me to prom, but we're in totally different cliques, and Im getting ALL of these signs, but we don't talk... Plus, he's extremeley popular... What do i do?!?!
  34. breana Sunday - 21 / 11 / 2010 Reply
    well, i mean now that i have read this i will be looking for all of thos signs but im not really sure he likes me, i mean ive noticed he sits "offensively" but im pretty sure that he dose that all of the time, and not just when i'm there. :/ i really like him. uuhhhh....
  35. Evelyn Monday - 29 / 11 / 2010 Reply
    Well...the guy I like called______(ha u thought id say!) is very popular with the girlz n I am afraid he likes someone else coz he hangs with the girls sometimes.... I sit next to ________ n his knees sometimes face mine n his hands r sooo close to mine. He looks at me too. N he also smiles at me n he has played with my hair. So hot.! Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhh lolz
  36. Evelyn Monday - 29 / 11 / 2010 Reply
    Oh also pls help me!!!!! I'm only 12 u know!!!! Well was 12 pls help me
  37. Amanda Tuesday - 30 / 11 / 2010 Reply
    Well I think this guy likes me...but he flirts with a ton of girls and today he flirted with me and he sat "offensively" and looks right into my eyes when he talks to me but idk if that's just to me or to everybody! And the same girl always posts on his facebook page but he hardly ever comments...what do i do? Any advice? I'm 15 by the way and he's 16 but we're in the same grade. Please help! I always strike out with guys...
  38. Feathers-In-Her-Hair Thursday - 02 / 12 / 2010 Reply
    Ok, I need help. I’m fifteen. Never had a boyfriend. Never kissed a guy. And… i need help. (isnt that what everyone goes to this site for? ha…haha…eeh…) He’s really funny, and we spend a lot of time together. But just as friends. Like a brother-sister relationship. But I want so badly to be more than that with him. But….. I’m 15. And he’s 13. But he is the only friend I have within 5 miles of my house! So of course I’m going to start feeling attachted to him like that! PLEASE HELP ME! I have NEVER EVER felt like that about ANYONE in my life before. And… there is another guy. (The two guys are on the swim team over the summer, so they are both my close friends. So this other guy, well, I think HE likes me likes me…. On the swim team, I swam a hard race, and I was tired at first, as I gave him the friends “Big Wet Hug” (it was HOT that summer, and that’s what we did to cool off, short of jumping in the water ourselves. The team would get disqualified so… that’s an explanation.) And as we walked back to the tent, he put his arm around me. So does this guy #2 like me like me? Do I have a chance with Guy #1, or do I have a better chance with Guy #2? I like them both the same, (A LOT!) so… Help me to get one or the other to ask me out!! (PS… I recomend to EVERY young woman out there to join a swim team, cause you get to see cut dudes with not shirt. sigh. And its just plain fun to hang with friends. It doesnt matter if ur fat, or slim (I am FREAKISHLY SLIM! I CAN SEE MY RIBS AND HELL NO I AM NOT ANOREXIC!) Swim team is so fun and awsome! Instant swimmer. Just add water. HAHA!
  39. Amanda Tuesday - 07 / 12 / 2010 Reply
    Seriously can anyone with experience help me? I really need advice like I cry at night not knowing what to do about this guy!! HELP AMANDA! Isn't that the point of this website????
    • liddddddy! Wednesday - 29 / 12 / 2010 Reply
      what's up?!?
    • Amanda Sunday - 09 / 01 / 2011 Reply
      lidddddy!- Ok so basically how do i get a guy to like me? Im 15 1/2 and have never kissed a guy or had a boyfirend. I like these 2 guys but get nervous talking to them; like i don't know what to say. Help! ~Amanda
  40. Musicandart98 Tuesday - 21 / 12 / 2010 Reply
    its funny i havent noticed signal 1,2,and 6. but then the rest is what he does.... :)
  41. heartbroken loner Sunday - 30 / 01 / 2011 Reply
    oh well try getting cposer to thems tthatys alll ican say ut wont be easy
  42. lily Tuesday - 08 / 02 / 2011 Reply
    arrrrggghhh!!! this is ssoooo confusing acorrding to this he like me cause he does all that and more but he has a girlfriend!! can anybody help me ???x
    • Diana Tuesday - 15 / 03 / 2011 Reply
      he is probably gonna dump his girlfriend for you hang in their
  43. Nadia Sunday - 20 / 02 / 2011 Reply
    Oh I hate the fact that I like someone but I know that he does not like me. He does not do any one of these things when I'm around or if he does I never see it. The truth is so scary and so heartbreaking that I just wished that I had never fallen for this guy. and he is not even that good looking or anything, I just find him...well... interesting. I hate having these stupid dreams of him someday just realising that i am actaully not a bad looking girl and that he may be interested in me. Dreams never come true the way you picture them in your mind, yes if you are very lucky they end up being beter then you would have imagined, but other times they just don't come true. If I had one wish I would wish that I never have a crush on anybody for as long as I live. Crushes are the most stupid, selfish, childish, bloody irratating emotion you can ever have. Or better yet, I wish that when you like a person and that person has a faint golden aura that only you can see and that would meen that he likes you as well. Yes I know that people might think that maybe he/she does not like them but the more they get to know them then they might actaully fall in love with them at the end. That does work for some people, but you just have to know when the situation is completely hopeless, when the guy/girl will never like you. I am not a flirty person and to tell the truth I don't want him to know that I like him, because I feel that liking him is wrong. I hate myself when I like someone that I don't even think is worth it, but I can't get the #$%#%$#% feeling to go away.
  44. Diana Tuesday - 15 / 03 / 2011 Reply
    oh he liks me
  45. *Happy-Meal* Sunday - 27 / 03 / 2011 Reply
    I couldn't help but smile as I read this, I can just rewind it all in my mind. He's more than I need, my Superman ;)
  46. lynmeri81 Monday - 28 / 03 / 2011 Reply
    hahahah.....these is funny..really happened.he doesnt know at all that im a mother of 1....he lost his interest at that moment...but still his bodylanguage really shows that he is still interest in me....he even try not to talk to me but he cant resist talking to me even it takes a few second ......especially the way he looked at me....killer looked....while my boss is around he just talk work topics....but when my boss is not around ....he talks like we're dating or something.....and yess...i like him too....
  47. Kayla Tuesday - 29 / 03 / 2011 Reply
    I am confused cause he stares at me and tries to get my attention, he even gave me his seat today cause I didnt have one so he sat on his knees for the rest of the day <3. But he doesnt do the more certain signs like the legs and the moving closer. Help me!!!
  48. PLS READ THIS pls re Tuesday - 05 / 04 / 2011 Reply
    The hint until 5 if you see this guy for the first time and he did that to you. You better go after him never let him go (Seriously chase him and when he stops you smile and make sure he gets the massage that im smilling to you) The final part if he hugs you means hes into you pretty much (you are the one...
    • PLS READ THIS pls re Tuesday - 05 / 04 / 2011 Reply
      the eye brown part may not included
  49. anything but stagnan Wednesday - 06 / 04 / 2011 Reply
    LOL, I'm sorry... I know I've been there, I've been that girl that is insane about a guy that just wants him...over two different guys in my life...that would read shit and blah de blah ha. Now, I'm just a single girl. Happy as hell to be single. I will take my chances where they are and as they come, knowing the more I get out there the more their will be. Aka, I'm not overly into anyone right now. I'm intrigued and would be upset if they stopped talking to me of course haha...but..I would be able to move on...with excitement of other possibilities. Maybe I'm more like a guy now ha,perhaps its just that I'm not in love, or I'm just not a teenager anymore...hello to 24. And I realize if someone doesn't want you, they don't want you. And your life can be happy in so many places, with many other people...even if you don't see it now, you can always find another amazing path.
  50. anything but stagnan Wednesday - 06 / 04 / 2011 Reply
    BUT I will say....I have made a fool out of myself lol. If you want a body language what about a smirk? God damn...there's someone I like that I can't help but smirk around and its a girl ha. So I just feel like a yay to that haha. You gotta take life for what it is.
  51. Mikaela Monday - 11 / 04 / 2011 Reply
    Is this still work out if the guy is 'playboy'?
  52. skittles123 Wednesday - 13 / 04 / 2011 Reply
    kk well i really like this guy and i am new to this online tip thing and i dont really know if they work and i dont want to get my heart broken because i had it broken so many times soo can you please tell me if they really do work before i actually do look for signals?!?
  53. Lina Friday - 29 / 04 / 2011 Reply
    Hii im Lina and im a highschooler. I have a huge crush on this kid but all ive said to him is Hi. Whenever we see each other he raises his eyebrows buty thats it.. i walys freak out when he does that and forget to smile.. also my friends say that i should add him to facebook but if ive never talked to him i feel like that is alittle bit weird and obvious.. i dont know what to do because im really shy to just go up to him and talk to him. Do you guys have any coments?
    • Giulia Thursday - 03 / 11 / 2011 Reply
      I think you should add him on Facebook! Also don't be afraid to smile or check him out when he's looking...that will let him know you like him or your interested!
  54. Lina Friday - 29 / 04 / 2011 Reply
    but* I always**
  55. arielle Monday - 23 / 05 / 2011 Reply
    This is sooooo true!! first time i made eye to eye contect with the man of my dreams its was love at first sight! We have been together for 4 years never been apart 3 children! I believe there is a man out there for every ladie you just have to try both the man and the ladie need to work at it !
    • samera Saturday - 25 / 02 / 2012 Reply
      thatsright i belive in finding your soulmate . i met the man of my dreams 4 years ago been together ever since there is not a day that goes by where i dont tell him that i love him
  56. clover Thursday - 09 / 06 / 2011 Reply
    This guy in my class talls to me all the time a moves next to me as well bhut am still not sure xx!
  57. CONNIE Thursday - 30 / 06 / 2011 Reply
    SCENARIO...YOU AND THE MAN YOU ARE INTERESTED HAVE LOST THEIR MATES. WE ARE IN 60+ BUT STILL WANT A NEW LOVE IN OUR LIVE. HOW DO I GET HIM INTERESTED? BEEN ON ONE DATE, SOMETHING VERY CASUAL. HE HAS CALLED JUST ABOUT EVERY DAY BUT NOW SEEMS VERY DISTANT. I AM REALLY CONFUSED ABOUT HOW TO HANDLE THIS.
  58. nosaint2010 Sunday - 03 / 07 / 2011 Reply
    well i love this sight... i just hope i can learn more from this cause im a total jerk on how to understand man...
  59. nosaint2010 Sunday - 03 / 07 / 2011 Reply
    im in a relationship where my boyfriend is 5 years younger and the worst thing is that he was also a friend of my ex-live-in partner... im starting to fall for him and i hope i can find ways to make him fall deeper and deeper....
  60. jade Tuesday - 05 / 07 / 2011 Reply
    i like this boy called ollie he is 116 in 3 months and i am 15 in 2 months we have been freinds for ages but we have been out alot of times he has been flirting with me for weekssmiling at me picking me up swinging me about he would go up to me if i am saying goodbye to my mates i would hug them and he would ask where his huge was i really like him but he has a girlfreind
  61. jade Tuesday - 05 / 07 / 2011 Reply
    i mean 16
  62. Fitz Tuesday - 28 / 08 / 2012 Reply
    This is the first time I read this and I've been trying to get him to like me but it seems impossible! Everytime I touch him he pushes me away. But I will try this and if it dosent work then I dunno what will cause my heart is breaking little by little everyday and I'm wondering if it will ever come try, I'm actually getting upset right now :'(
  63. ageless male pills Monday - 17 / 12 / 2012 Reply
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  64. jahnae Saturday - 12 / 01 / 2013 Reply
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  65. jahnae Saturday - 12 / 01 / 2013 Reply
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