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by Asdfing Team  |  on March 4th, 2008  |  6 comments

What’s wrong with me?

Today we received a letter from Mike that wanted to share with us his personal story. He wants some answers to his problem, so please make sure that you give him your best advice. Thank you.

The Letter:

Greetings,

My name is Mike and yesterday something very strange happened, so I decided to share it with asdfing.com
I went alone to a bar yesterday night. There I met a beautiful girl. I noticed that she was staring at me the whole night. You know I was more than happy so I thought its time to approach her. I bought her a drink so we started talking and everything was just fine, no problem at all… Anyway you know sometime later and after a lot of conversation she invited me to her house. Of course I accepted and once again I was happy.

When we entered her house we started kissing and at the same time we were heading to the bedroom… The point is that when we got there…I couldn’t have sex…and that happened for the very first time in my life. I couldn’t be aroused. I hadn’t drunk that much and I am 37 years old…
I felt so embarrassed, and I told her that “I can’t do it you remind me my of my-girlfriend”. You understand that after that she said “Get out of my house!”

So I left… The point is that I had a crush on that girl and I want to call her back, but I feel so sad and embarrassed about what happened. What shall I do?

About my problem: Could that be a medical problem? Maybe it was just stress about something that I couldn’t think about? Please give me some advice…What shall I do?

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  1. Teneo Wednesday - 05 / 03 / 2008 Reply
    Anything stressful going on in your life currently? Stress could affect that, when I was in basic training, every guy in my company was saying they couldn't 'get it up'. We all figured it was something in the food or juice they were giving us, but near the end of training, when we were used to the stress, everything fell back into place. I also find if I think about it alot before hand and almost feel pressure to perform, I have a harder time getting going. Was in your boat awhile back, and read up about it. They say something like 98% of the time it's a mental thing. Good luck!
  2. Anetta Thursday - 06 / 03 / 2008 Reply
    I couldn't say if your problem is physical or psychological. As a girl i don't know much on that subject. I guess that if it keeps happening to you, you should ask a doctor's advice. Otherwise it's all good in the hood!! However, i am making this comment because i was surprised to read about the reaction of that girl. She through you out?? really? A guy i ve been with had a similar problem but i never told him to get out of my house..what i did, was to laugh a bit, tell him it's ok (because IT IS OK) and then we passed the night discussing and drinking.
  3. Simplicity Thursday - 06 / 03 / 2008 Reply
    Hey guys!! Mike's personal story is a good opportunity for me to share with you a problem i am facing. The last 5 guys i've been with have the same problem. They can't "get it up". i am really worried because i think 5 are too many. So, i am wondering: Why this keeps happening to my lovers? Is it something I do wrong? I never had a similar issue in the past and i need an honest answer: Is it possible to be the girl's fault when the man can not perform? Or is it just his problem??? Looking forward for your answers...
  4. kancan Wednesday - 19 / 03 / 2008 Reply
    maybe they had too much sex
  5. Sardor Sunday - 22 / 02 / 2009 Reply
    Hey, The best advise is try to redo or repeat this couples of time with other girls and all new ideas will come how to call that girl. I promise you you will forget all of this. Just try
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