its hard but maybe the best thing to do is move on …..u can do it! x

There is no need to stand out and shine from other females; you just need to be you. Its a “take-it-or-leave-it” thing. He should want you for who you are. If he does not, do not worry. As Sarah said, in that case, move on!

start dating again. i know it’s hard, but u have to. keep yourself busy. if it’s meant to be he’ll come around again.

It´s hard when you have to make choices with your head and not your heart but..never stand by a man who positions you as a random option for whenever he wants..by what i´m reading,you say you think of him everytime and you want him back..well i think if he felt the same way you guys should already be together.Anyways..just be you..there is nothing more precious than being yourself!..it´s the best way to stand out and really shine among others if that´s what you want. And in case he doesn´t come around..well that´s HIS loss…not yours. take care and think about it

I also had the same story of yours few years back.. I know it’s hard to not missing the ex each seconds but time will heal your feelings.. just believe in yourself.. just move on… shit happens sometime… right?

you say you think he still has feelings for you, are you sure your not letting you feelings cloud your judgement? if he is deffinatly giving you the signs that he is interested then ther maby other underlying issues with the relationship that you had that you have overlooked, from the sounds of it he is trying to make you jellous, maby he feels you did not give him enough attention? if he cares about you then standing out from other females should not be a problem as you should stand out to him already, and if as you put it “he parades the girls in front of you” then you obviously already stand out to him so that should not be an issue, my advice would be along the same lines as everybody else, start dating again, however if you really love this guy then make sure he sees you with another guy, it may be that all it takes is seeing you with someone else to realise how he really feels about you, however if this does not work then things are obviously not going to happen with this guy and it would probabally be in your best interest to try and move on, bearing in mind the best things in life generally come when your least expecting it. hope this helps. cai. x

like what the others said.. you shouldn’t do anything to stand out.. JUST BE YOU.. sooner you’ll meet someone who will be fascinated of your “being you”… and if that time comes.. go for it.. date and forget your ex.

I know how you feel. One things for sure. Be prepared for pain. It could be coming your way. Love could hurt you. And your in love. Try adding to the way you look see what the beautiful stars do, and try to immitate or create. call him more. show him how much you love him. do the things that please him. and when the times right, he`s all yours, trust me. But you also have to trust me on the be prepared part. Oh ya, during the process live your life. Don`t forget your goal. Make him yours ( Back again )

Try different things with the way you look. Watch the stars try to immitate or create with the way you look. this change should also make you happy. Do the things that please him more. oral love ect… call him more.. show him your jealous. make mistakes but fix them… let him know. don`t give up. Then when he`s attached. Don`t give him to much, only when he really wants it. You should ask him for stuff. tell him that you love the way he looks ect..But be prepared for pain. As the old saying goes. love is like fire, it can burn and leave a scar. He`ll be all yours, pay attention to him.And note that i couldn`t mention everything but you`ll know them when you feel them……