How to Keep Him With You and In Love

keep him in loveSometimes, we feel like it’s a terrible task for us gals to keep our guys in check. They seem to grow bored easily, be afraid of commitment, and tend to cheat on us. We feel insecure, inferior, and awful about ourselves and our relationships. However, don’t fret! It’s not hard at all to give your man the things he needs to be happy and, keep him faithful and with you!

- Give your man freedom. I know this may sound like the opposite of what you’re trying to do, but trust me. At the first sign of “enclosure“, a guy will want to bust his chains and set himself free. What I mean by “freedom” is, let him go out with his friends, show compassion for his need for privacy and his alone time. No, this will not make him float away from you, or let him take you for granted – hey, if it did, maybe you shouldn’t be with someone who would take advantage of that, anyway!

- Be confident- don’t nag or whine or show signs of jealousy or weakness. I’m not saying that you should never feel bad and show it once in a while; we need our men to comfort us and make us feel good about ourselves again. But you can’t ask them to run after you and comfort you all the time. Men need a strong woman by their side, that will be able to take care of them for life and help them with all their problems (just like us women!) Hey, no one still believes that men are the “stronger” gender anymore!

- Don’t get too comfortable. Of course you have to be comfortable, but don’t forget that you’re striving to keep a man’s interest in you. Men are visual creatures – they think and feel based on what they see; which means they want to see the woman they fell in love with for ever. I’m not saying you should always wear stockings and makeup. I’m just saying, don’t let yourself go. There are a few things like personal hygiene and private practices (like shaving your legs!) that they really don’t have to watch and be a part of, do they?

- Give him space. Like I said before with freedom, let him have a good time with his friends. Do things together, but not everything. You’re sharing your lives, your wants, hopes, needs, dreams, homes and bedrooms – but you don’t have to share everything; in other words, don’t go to the bathroom together as well! (Come on, admit it; you know you either do it or know a couple that do!) Men need private time, a place in the house to call their own; like their computers, or maybe even the bathroom! This will give them a sense of freedom that we can never understand!

- Don’t be insecure and afraid that he’ll end up with another girl if you let him go out. Trust me, if he wanted to be with someone else, he would. Don’t be jealous of every little thing. Show interest, but not jealousy – that would most likely drive him away. Don’t look through his papers, computer, or mobile phone for traces of infidelity. If you’re afraid he’s cheating on you, you most likely have deeper problems in your relationship, and should confront him with your fears. Just don’t go overboard and accuse him at the drop of a hat. Just think, that if they really wanted to be with someone else, they would, no matter how much you try to prevent it. Thing is, you really can’t prevent a thing; just love them as best as you can.

- Show that you care. You don’t have to pamper him and tend to his every need (that’s what mothers do!), but make it obvious that his health and well-being are priorities for you. Make him breakfast; cook him dinner. Ask him how his day was. Show that you care about the things going on in his life. These things may sound silly, but it’s important to let them know that we care about more than just ourselves, what with all our make-up and PMS and insecurities.

- Compliment him as much as possible. You know, men are as insecure as we are, if not more, about their looks (not all of them, but the ones that do just don’t admit it.) They love hearing that you consider them handsome, or love their body - especially when you compliment their naughty bits! They will never get sick of hearing how much you like the way they look, the way they dress, their bodies, you name it!

- Give them sex. LOTS of it. No, they will not grow sick of it. Don’t refrain from having sex with them to “keep them in check.” And for heavens’ sake, they won’t see you as a slut or easy if you make love often. They’ll go crazy over you, knowing that you like having sex with them! The only thing you’ll manage from keeping sex from them is for them to look for a source of sex elsewhere. Besides, the good sex is one of the reasons you’re together, right?

These are just a few ways to keep your man interested in you and happy in the long run in a long-term relationship. Check out more ways to make him fall in love with you, make him want you and be the woman of his dreams.

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