Comments on: How To Survive A Breakup http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/ Stuff That Matters Tue, 31 Jan 2012 17:58:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: scott http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-81773 scott Mon, 27 Jun 2011 05:34:03 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-81773 I get you freind! your story is simular to mine..she cheated with her old ex at least four times that I know. I stuck by her through it all. I live in germany in the military and paid for her flights back and forth for this past year, every other month. I know she loves me but she loves him too and would just drop off the planet when she went to visit and lie to me about it. I finally gave up and I feel as though I don't want to go on. This is a short version. When together we were great, apart and we feel apart. when together we had enormous chemistry. She was however extreemly disfuctional and so am I. I would blow her phone up with text and calls, all due to a lack of trust. Forgive? yes, forget? I could not. I would of began but with each start, she would drop off the planet again..call one day and the next two days? nothing..I get you friend, I have gone to counseling after counseling and will go again today, but I feel empty. we were GOOD when together. I get you freind! your story is simular to mine..she cheated with her old ex at least four times that I know. I stuck by her through it all. I live in germany in the military and paid for her flights back and forth for this past year, every other month. I know she loves me but she loves him too and would just drop off the planet when she went to visit and lie to me about it. I finally gave up and I feel as though I don't want to go on.

This is a short version. When together we were great, apart and we feel apart. when together we had enormous chemistry. She was however extreemly disfuctional and so am I. I would blow her phone up with text and calls, all due to a lack of trust. Forgive? yes, forget? I could not. I would of began but with each start, she would drop off the planet again..call one day and the next two days? nothing..I get you friend, I have gone to counseling after counseling and will go again today, but I feel empty. we were GOOD when together.

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]]> By: AHNA http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-20421 AHNA Tue, 01 Jun 2010 02:34:17 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-20421 my boyfriend and i broke up last night because i doubted him for just using me and not loving me the way i love him. He argue with me and start telling me words and phrases that really hurt me a lot he even encourage me to say something just to show what i am feeling that moment. What i did was i just told him you won't hear anything from me ive loved you and i dont want to hurt you because it's going to hurt me more.but he keeps on saying hurtful things and i stopped. i cried a lot but im ok now sometimes when we broke up with someone you really love you forget that your saying words that will only hurt the feeling of the person you tend to forget that doing such thing will only make it hard for you to let go because you know you hurt him but inside you you where hurt most. my boyfriend and i broke up last night because i doubted him for just using me and not loving me the way i love him. He argue with me and start telling me words and phrases that really hurt me a lot he even encourage me to say something just to show what i am feeling that moment. What i did was i just told him you won't hear anything from me ive loved you and i dont want to hurt you because it's going to hurt me more.but he keeps on saying hurtful things and i stopped. i cried a lot but im ok now sometimes when we broke up with someone you really love you forget that your saying words that will only hurt the feeling of the person you tend to forget that doing such thing will only make it hard for you to let go because you know you hurt him but inside you you where hurt most.

]]> By: Mary http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-18924 Mary Wed, 28 Apr 2010 06:43:05 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-18924 My ex broke up with me a month ago- We were together for 3 years.. I've done stupid things to try to be close to him coz it hurt and I missed him. I've gone through a billion emotions, and I still go through them. Now I think im going to try the no contact or clean slate rule. But its so hard knowing im losing and have lost my best friend and boyfriend. Theres so many things I would change that I regret, I know all my mistakes, I do love him a lot.. I just wish letting go was easier.. No contact here we go.. If you can help me, please do. Whatever i try not to think about it or do, It still hurts.. My ex broke up with me a month ago- We were together for 3 years.. I've done stupid things to try to be close to him coz it hurt and I missed him. I've gone through a billion emotions, and I still go through them. Now I think im going to try the no contact or clean slate rule. But its so hard knowing im losing and have lost my best friend and boyfriend.

Theres so many things I would change that I regret, I know all my mistakes, I do love him a lot..

I just wish letting go was easier.. No contact here we go.. If you can help me, please do.

Whatever i try not to think about it or do, It still hurts..

]]> By: PIP http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-14886 PIP Fri, 22 Jan 2010 13:09:18 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-14886 I am going through a very hard break up with someone I was so confused about. We fought often but loved each other very much. I cant sleep or eat its been like this for two weeks. I messed up she lefted and isnt coming back we talked about it and its over for good. its tearing me apart I am going through a very hard break up with someone I was so confused about. We fought often but loved each other very much. I cant sleep or eat its been like this for two weeks. I messed up she lefted and isnt coming back we talked about it and its over for good. its tearing me apart

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]]> By: Mike http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-13276 Mike Sat, 12 Dec 2009 05:39:19 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-13276 I did most of these without knowing. I feel much better. I did most of these without knowing. I feel much better.

]]> By: Smashed pieces http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-13063 Smashed pieces Sat, 05 Dec 2009 09:57:47 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-13063 Please help me!!!!!! Please help me!!!!!!

]]> By: Smashed pieces http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-13062 Smashed pieces Sat, 05 Dec 2009 09:56:25 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/#comment-13062 I'm lost. I did everything for her. Supported her when she wasn't working, drove her to work&back when she was-& this was out of my route. Stood by her when she betrayed my trust- emailing her ex that he'l lwys b her perfect match. Stood by her when she dragged me to some event so she'd secretly meet some guy & when i found out she denied it.Months later i caught their emails. How do u get over it when u gave with ur heart&never asked anythin in return&never raised a hand? How should i? I miss her badly. I'm tired of being the strong one@wrk,family&friends. Sometimes i want to receive too,to b valued. I jst want to die.I guess i've played my part in this world..and i've lost. Please HELP ME!! I'm lost. I did everything for her. Supported her when she wasn't working, drove her to work&back when she was-& this was out of my route. Stood by her when she betrayed my trust- emailing her ex that he'l lwys b her perfect match. Stood by her when she dragged me to some event so she'd secretly meet some guy & when i found out she denied it.Months later i caught their emails. How do u get over it when u gave with ur heart&never asked anythin in return&never raised a hand? How should i? I miss her badly. I'm tired of being the strong one@wrk,family&friends. Sometimes i want to receive too,to b valued. I jst want to die.I guess i've played my part in this world..and i've lost. Please HELP ME!!

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