Seducing a woman is not an easy task. Unlike men, women don’t care that much If you are handsome or that smart or even if you have money. Many men think that they can have any woman they want just because they are rich but that’s not really true. In fact, women see things in a different way and all that mutters is your mind. My grandfather used to say that if you wish to have sex with a woman you have to have sex with her mind first. (but with dirty words :p)

Let’s suppose that you just met a girl you never knew before. Is there anything you can do to seduce her?

Get her attention: The first think you need to do is to get her attention and your weapon for this mission will be your humour. But be careful not to overdo it, because there is a tiny demarcation line between funny and ridiculous. If you lack of humour then work on it. Humour is a must and if you want to seduce a woman you need to have it. Try to approach her and when the time is right spit your line out to make her laugh! “tip” Look her in the eyes and if you are too shy to do that, look in her mouth; the common human eye can not see the difference! Do not give her inappropriate looks (meaning do not look at her legs, her boobs, her ass) and do not look at the void under any circumstances! As soon as she laughs, you need to walk away from her in less time than 30 sec! Be sure that your funny line will make you the main subject of discussion among her friends for a while.

Seduce Her Friends: If you wish to be with that woman you need to make a good impression to her friends. Depending on the place you’ve met her, speak with her friends, dance with them or even sing with them. Make them laugh or get their attention. Try to act normal and cool, don’t blow your own trumpet, be a little mysterious but not that much because soon or later they will think that you are a psycho. While you are talking with her friends ignore her; I know that it is very hard but you need to do it. Even if your previous joke made her think that you are flirting with her, now that you ignore her, she’ll start having second thoughts about it. It is important that she will never be sure that you like her. If a woman feels that you are an easy target you’ll lose the game.

The phone number: Do not ask her phone number! The hardest part is to get her number. The ideal upshot of your first encounter would be if she asks for your number but that’s kind of unusual (unless you are handsome and have six packs but then again it’s not that certain) Anyway you don’t have to care that much about it. Just think carefully, do you know any cool events going on in your town? Are you invited in any fancy parties and stuff? If not, you will have to make a party and be sure that you will invite them… ALL OF THEM! You will have to ask for a phone number from one of her friends. If there is a man around better go to him; if not ask in general between them so you can give the tips on where the event is going to be. Make them believe that they don’t want to miss it, so everyone will come. As soon as you have a phone number, leave the place. Smile and salute your new buddies but don’t look back for her.

The event: The big day has come, it is time to use the phone number you have; call her friends. Explain them how to come and be sure that you sound friendly on the phone, although remind them to bring everyone but don’t focus on names. 90% your girl will be with them, if not do not worry keep acting like we said before so you may gain their trust. If your love show herself, its time for you to act! This time you may talk with her and spend sometime with her! Offer a nice cocktail and make her laugh for a moment, don’t try to take her away from her friends, make her believe that you still don’t care that much and that you see her as a friend, although give her some strange looks because if she believes that you are just a friend then you’ll have many problems to solve. When the time to go will come, tell them that it was very nice to see them around, and ask the phone numbers of everyone, I know its boring but do it! Give them all a missed call but send an instant message to her mobile by typing your number and your name under it only. Believe me it will make her smile softly. Congratulation you have her phone number!

Patient: I don’t know if you got an instant message back from her, but you need to wait at least two days to give a signal that you are alive, after two days its time for you to act. Call her this time, tell her that you know an awesome bar and you will be there with some of your friends, tell her to invite her friends too so you can go there all together. She will probably say yes, but if not don’t worry, wait for three more days this time and try again. I am sure she will say yes eventually; if not as I said before work with your humour and don’t be a stalker. The point to call her friends is that when they are alone they will start a discussion about you for sure, so in general they will be a talk about you. While you are out let your friend start a discussion about sex, participate in it and talk with confidence and style, you may beam smile at her while talking, sex conversations are always good to show that you are not a guy with taboos.

The Date: After all that time it is time to ask her out! Don’t use instant messaging, the best think to do is to talk with her, show that you are brave. Call her at the morning and ask her for a coffee, tell her that you are bored at the moment, after the yes you will hear, search at the internet about the new movies; don’t choose something with blood or guns, something soft will make the work. At the coffee, tell her that you know a great movie that playing at the cinema, ask her to come with you, if she cant that day , its not a problem she will come sooner or later. Go home take a bath , call a nice restaurant you know to keep you a place for two. Go to the cinema, make her laugh, enjoy the movie and don’t try to kiss her inside there! When you are about to go home, tell her to follow you, go to the restaurant tell your name, and a guy will show the table which is for you. You will impress her!

The Escort: You had an awesome night, but now its time to return at home. You have to escort her at her house, if you can walk to the house it’s the best way because you will both keep laughing and telling stories from your experiences, if not take your car or take a taxi by saying I never get my car while I am drinking. Walk through her door and tell the goodnight, you have to make for the kiss, after the response Do NOT ask her for invitation inside the house, if she wish she may give you one. You have just seduced a Woman you feel lighter than the air. You are in LOVE!