Comments on: How To Make Him Fall In Love With You… Truths And Tricks http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/ Stuff That Matters Fri, 10 Feb 2012 09:19:51 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Nikki http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-184598 Nikki Mon, 30 Jan 2012 23:01:24 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-184598 Hey, I need some relationship advice; i hope you can help me. I am a senior in high school and I was born and raised in America but my family is from India. I honestly never though about dating much and I figured that college would be a good time to start, but there is a guy, of course, that is now screwing with my mind. Last year I kinda felt that he liked me but i couldn't be too sure because he is quite in school. (Side note: he is half indian (mother) and half caucasian and he is familiar with indian customs which is really important for me) Basically we ended up going to junior prom together (mutual agreement, but he did give me flowers). I felt a little awkward about the whole situation because I guess I realized I kinda liked him and it was the first time it felt real. So anyway, he was really nice, he called me the most beautiful girl there and other such things. I had a great time. Then after prom we were back to not really talking to each other. If our eyes met we would look away. It felt like there was a tension between us. Over the summer of moms became best friends, which made things worse, and we had to go to a computer science camp together, which wasn't so bad. We actually worked together and teased each other, I guess we were flirtatious, but im no where close to an expert on this stuff. After the camp we didn't talk again but it was weird because our parents would go out or we had to go to each others houses. Then senior year started and some how we started talking on facebook like every night and soon we were texting all time, yet we still are quite and reserved in school. That is what bothers me the most. Im a very outgoing person in general but not when it comes to relationships, obviously because i have never been in one. So basically i wait for him to say something in school but for the most part we dont say anything. but our text/online chats are awesome. He is completely open and we tell each other practically everything. And he constantly compliments me and says we should hang out more outside of school (because we really never have, which could be because we only have a few friends in common) Also another problem is that he has heard me say that im not really allowed to date (parent's rules, but they told me that like 4 yrs ago and haven't really talked about it since) So i have said things like, i don't really agree with them, or im a teenager, im supposed to not listen to them. Basically i was telling him that i would be willing to break that one rule for him. Also he has been concerned about the way my parents view him. You may not understand all of this but our indian heritage has provided us with certain mortal and customs that we follow. So now i can't really take it anymore, i just want to know if he likes me! i know i sound like a desperate teenager, but im really not. I just hate not being able to define what we are. He is a great friend and i wouldn't mind if that is all he is but he would also be an amazing first boyfriend. I honestly thing i ready for that (we are both 18) i have tried to push him into telling me if he likes me but i think we both just beat around the bush. so now i think i should just ask him in person. Should I? and if so, how oh and i would love to go to senior prom with him- should i ask? (im kinda an old-fashioned girl-basically a hopeless romantic, so i would rather he asked me) thank you for reading this Hey, I need some relationship advice; i hope you can help me.
I am a senior in high school and I was born and raised in America but my family is from India. I honestly never though about dating much and I figured that college would be a good time to start, but there is a guy, of course, that is now screwing with my mind. Last year I kinda felt that he liked me but i couldn't be too sure because he is quite in school. (Side note: he is half indian (mother) and half caucasian and he is familiar with indian customs which is really important for me) Basically we ended up going to junior prom together (mutual agreement, but he did give me flowers). I felt a little awkward about the whole situation because I guess I realized I kinda liked him and it was the first time it felt real. So anyway, he was really nice, he called me the most beautiful girl there and other such things. I had a great time. Then after prom we were back to not really talking to each other. If our eyes met we would look away. It felt like there was a tension between us. Over the summer of moms became best friends, which made things worse, and we had to go to a computer science camp together, which wasn't so bad. We actually worked together and teased each other, I guess we were flirtatious, but im no where close to an expert on this stuff. After the camp we didn't talk again but it was weird because our parents would go out or we had to go to each others houses.
Then senior year started and some how we started talking on facebook like every night and soon we were texting all time, yet we still are quite and reserved in school. That is what bothers me the most. Im a very outgoing person in general but not when it comes to relationships, obviously because i have never been in one. So basically i wait for him to say something in school but for the most part we dont say anything.
but our text/online chats are awesome. He is completely open and we tell each other practically everything. And he constantly compliments me and says we should hang out more outside of school (because we really never have, which could be because we only have a few friends in common)
Also another problem is that he has heard me say that im not really allowed to date (parent's rules, but they told me that like 4 yrs ago and haven't really talked about it since) So i have said things like, i don't really agree with them, or im a teenager, im supposed to not listen to them. Basically i was telling him that i would be willing to break that one rule for him. Also he has been concerned about the way my parents view him. You may not understand all of this but our indian heritage has provided us with certain mortal and customs that we follow.
So now i can't really take it anymore, i just want to know if he likes me! i know i sound like a desperate teenager, but im really not. I just hate not being able to define what we are. He is a great friend and i wouldn't mind if that is all he is but he would also be an amazing first boyfriend. I honestly thing i ready for that (we are both 18) i have tried to push him into telling me if he likes me but i think we both just beat around the bush. so now i think i should just ask him in person. Should I? and if so, how
oh and i would love to go to senior prom with him- should i ask? (im kinda an old-fashioned girl-basically a hopeless romantic, so i would rather he asked me)
thank you for reading this

]]> By: Lars http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-184550 Lars Mon, 30 Jan 2012 21:27:25 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-184550 Ok I'am a guy, but I just have to say this.. In 2008 we were together, and we broke up in the begining of 2009, and after we broke up we didn't speak to eachother for 6 months !! And when we started to talk I immediately felt it still was something there. Now for 3 months I've been deeeeeeply in loved with her, and I have tried to flirt with her, and sometimes she flirts back and looks interested, but other times she are just ignoring me and when I ask her if she is mad at me or something like that she answers No, and next day she's all happy with me and smiling to me etc.. She had another boyfriend after me, and when they broke up ( it lasted for 1 month!) I rly tried to show her that I am interested in her :/ So my question is : Should I just tell her what I feel, hope for the best and just move on if she rejects me ? Or should I wait a bit longer and see how it develops ?? help me ? Ok I'am a guy, but I just have to say this..

In 2008 we were together, and we broke up in the begining of 2009, and after we broke up we didn't speak to eachother for 6 months !! And when we started to talk I immediately felt it still was something there. Now for 3 months I've been deeeeeeply in loved with her, and I have tried to flirt with her, and sometimes she flirts back and looks interested, but other times she are just ignoring me and when I ask her if she is mad at me or something like that she answers No, and next day she's all happy with me and smiling to me etc.. She had another boyfriend after me, and when they broke up ( it lasted for 1 month!) I rly tried to show her that I am interested in her :/ So my question is : Should I just tell her what I feel, hope for the best and just move on if she rejects me ? Or should I wait a bit longer and see how it develops ?? help me ?

]]> By: sara http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-181482 sara Wed, 25 Jan 2012 17:08:50 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-181482 Riya!! U have a strong personality!! Great reaction, About the distance gape My boyfriend and I see eachother one week every 3months and we are so much in love. Thanx to phone calls and internet chat what I want to say is: If he is interested he will do as much effort as you! Good luck everybody!!! Riya!! U have a strong personality!! Great reaction, About the distance gape
My boyfriend and I see eachother one week every 3months and we are so much in love. Thanx to phone calls and internet chat
what I want to say is: If he is interested he will do as much effort as you! Good luck everybody!!!

]]> By: sara http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-181479 sara Wed, 25 Jan 2012 17:05:30 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-181479 hi fairy...I think ur situation is obvious!! he isnt that into you! Im sorry to say it Guys like what they like! Be sure that its not ur faulty Im telling you this by experience! Its just him play hard to get and keep yourself from showing that emotion you have!! make him doubt ur feelings! He is now so sure about ur love that he thinks he owns you!! Prove him wrong! hi fairy…I think ur situation is obvious!! he isnt that into you! Im sorry to say it
Guys like what they like! Be sure that its not ur faulty Im telling you this by experience! Its just him
play hard to get and keep yourself from showing that emotion you have!! make him doubt ur feelings!
He is now so sure about ur love that he thinks he owns you!! Prove him wrong!

]]> By: fairy http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-179898 fairy Sun, 22 Jan 2012 13:56:45 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-179898 hi there .. hmm I want to talk about this guy that I'm in a relationship with him like 2 years and I love him so much and I don't know if he loves me back because he don't do anything to show me that he really loves me , he wants to keep our relationship as a secret and he don't tell anyone about us and I feel so bad about that :( and I don't know what to do , Can somebody help me? please ... also...wen i cam out of city..he strted talkin to me lesser n lesser...HELP... hi there .. hmm I want to talk about this guy that I'm in a relationship with him like 2 years and I love him so much and I don't know if he loves me back because he don't do anything to show me that he really loves me , he wants to keep our relationship as a secret and he don't tell anyone about us and I feel so bad about that :( and I don't know what to do , Can somebody help me? please …
also…wen i cam out of city..he strted talkin to me lesser n lesser…HELP…

]]> By: Diana http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-174502 Diana Thu, 12 Jan 2012 12:50:34 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-174502 hi there .. hmm I want to talk about this guy that I'm in a relationship with him like 2 years and I love him so much and I don't know if he loves me back because he don't do anything to show me that he really loves me , he wants to keep our relationship as a secret and he don't tell anyone about us and I feel so bad about that :( and I don't know what to do , Can somebody help me? please ... hi there .. hmm I want to talk about this guy that I'm in a relationship with him like 2 years and I love him so much and I don't know if he loves me back because he don't do anything to show me that he really loves me , he wants to keep our relationship as a secret and he don't tell anyone about us and I feel so bad about that :( and I don't know what to do , Can somebody help me? please …

]]> By: Pauline http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-165321 Pauline Tue, 27 Dec 2011 00:30:13 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-165321 After reading this, I am going to try giving out more compliments. :) After reading this, I am going to try giving out more compliments. :)

]]> By: riya http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-159937 riya Sun, 18 Dec 2011 12:01:33 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-159937 we were perfect couple when we were in same city.then i had to go another place for higher studied ,,,,we had sex ,,,but because of communication gape we started lots of understanding ,,,lots of fights and then we brokeup..1 day he calld me and said u dont have time for me,u r tottaly chaned and abused me alot i sait u dont have any work ,,but i hv ,,u go and do ur own job than only u get to knw how much busy i m with my MBA i was in lots of pain he removed all the contect with me,,and gone delhi for his job ,,,i missed him alot ,,and try to find him ....but didnt get anythng,,,,,he was not committed with me for marrige because of some family problem,,but still i love him,,,,,1 day i calld him n said ,,atleast dont misunderstand me,,,,ve cleard all the misunderstanding ,,,,,,n filly v start talking again...1 day he aproach me for sex...i m still love with him,,,ve met and v had sex againg,,,i felt i got him again but thing was not going as before ,,i came to my collage lyf,,i start callling him but he didnt pick my call,,when he wants talk with me he calls me,,i m fed up with this conditions ,,finally i told him not contect with me in such way....what to do? we were perfect couple when we were in same city.then i had to go another place for higher studied ,,,,we had sex ,,,but because of communication gape we started lots of understanding ,,,lots of fights and then we brokeup..1 day he calld me and said u dont have time for me,u r tottaly chaned and abused me alot i sait u dont have any work ,,but i hv ,,u go and do ur own job than only u get to knw how much busy i m with my MBA i was in lots of pain he removed all the contect with me,,and gone delhi for his job ,,,i missed him alot ,,and try to find him ….but didnt get anythng,,,,,he was not committed with me for marrige because of some family problem,,but still i love him,,,,,1 day i calld him n said ,,atleast dont misunderstand me,,,,ve cleard all the misunderstanding ,,,,,,n filly v start talking again…1 day he aproach me for sex…i m still love with him,,,ve met and v had sex againg,,,i felt i got him again but thing was not going as before ,,i came to my collage lyf,,i start callling him but he didnt pick my call,,when he wants talk with me he calls me,,i m fed up with this conditions ,,finally i told him not contect with me in such way….what to do?

]]> By: raindeer06 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-153937 raindeer06 Tue, 06 Dec 2011 05:43:30 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-153937 What if he's gay? Is it still posible to make him love me? What if he's gay? Is it still posible to make him love me?

]]> By: sailorsun http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-152241 sailorsun Fri, 02 Dec 2011 18:42:43 +0000 http://www.asdfing.com/how-to-make-him-fall-in-love-with-you-truths-and-tricks/#comment-152241 Well, i never actually met the guy. For about a year we're chatting online and for the last months i realised i'm in love with him. He's so nice, generous, just talking to him makes me smile and he lifts away my depression. So... how should i may him fall in love with me? ): Well, i never actually met the guy. For about a year we're chatting online and for the last months i realised i'm in love with him. He's so nice, generous, just talking to him makes me smile and he lifts away my depression. So… how should i may him fall in love with me? ):

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