How To Make Him Fall In Love With You… Truths And Tricks
There comes a time in your life when, even if you enjoy being single, you meet the guy that makes your heart beat faster. There is no right or wrong time to fall in love – it just happens. And then, all you want is to be around him. But, what if he doesn’t seem to care? Is there anything you can do to get his attention? Is there any way to make him yours?
Truths:
Be yourself!
The first rule to make him fall in love with you is to be yourself. If he will love you for something, let that be your special character and your extraordinary mind. Don’t pretend to be someone you are not. Don’t do anything that isn’t you. He’ll find out that you are faking as soon as you’ll be tired of pretending to be his dream woman and start being yourself. What will happen then? He might not like what he sees; he’ll feel betrayed, and he’ll probably run from you. After all, you do have enough self respect to be loved for what you really are, don’t you?
Be confident!
Being yourself alone isn’t enough. You also have to believe in yourself. Many women remain single because of their low self-esteem. I once met a girl that wasn’t that pretty, but she claimed that she could have any man she wanted. She told me, “It doesn’t matter how you look, it matters what you think of yourself.” Later that night I met her boyfriend. They were on a long-term relationship and they seemed to be happy together. This woman was acting like she was wearing an invisible crown; and it was working.
Are you too shy and don’t know how to “promote” yourself? Here is a tip: think about what your good parts are. Do you have a great humor? Then use it! Guys appreciate humor as mush as girls do!
Do not overreact!
When you like someone and you want to make him like you too, it’s very easy to make a fool of yourself. Don’t be too loud or too invisible; don’t laugh for no reason, don’t say anything that pops into your head. That usually happens when you are too nervous about what he’ll think of you – there is no reason to be so stressed. Just relax, take a big breath and act like he is one of your friends.
Look gorgeous!
First impressions are always important. Not that personality and confidence don’t count, but looking gorgeous whenever he gets to see you, will make your life a lot easier. If you are one of those girls that can’t tell the difference between eyeliner and concealer, put your face’s fate in to your girlfriends’ hands (and makeup kits)!. She will make the best of the beauty God blessed you with!
Tricks:
Be friendly – Smile and compliment him
The first step to make a guy like you is to get close to him. Who can resist the company of a friendly and happy face?
Have you ever noticed that although men compliment us a lot, we don’t do the same? Make the difference. Tell him how handsome he looks. He won’t see it coming, plus, he’ll understand you are interested (keep in mind that most of the times, guys don’t have a clue that we may like them). Jean Giraudoux said about compliments: “When you see a woman who can go nowhere without a staff of admirers, it’s not so much because they think she is beautiful, but because she has told them they are handsome”.
Listen to the boys!
I don’t imply that all men are the same, or that all see the same way, but it’s always good to take some good advice from the boys. Ask your friends if their girlfriends said or did something they liked, or hated. When you learn about common mistakes girls do during dates or during a relationship, just try to avoid doing them!
Play hard-to-get!
This is an old trick that never goes out of fashion! Make him jealous; don’t answer all his phone calls, and don’t be always available for him. Hang out with other guys too – let him believe you have many admirers. Men are competitive by nature, so he’ll fight for your attention. As soon as he does, he’ll start wondering: “Why am I jealous? Am I so interested in this girl?” You’ll know you have won his heart…
Play on your turf!
Invite him over to your place for a cup of coffee or a movie. You will feel very comfortable if you meet at your house. There are many things you can do if you stay indoors. What’s more, you can invite him to hang out with your friends. They are the people that know how to make you look even cooler than he already thinks you are! They are always in the mood to say something nice or tell some awesome stories about you.
Find out about him.
To get into his heart, you have to get into his mind first. Find out what he’s made of. Ask people that know him to discover what he likes and dislikes. Do you have something in common? Maybe you listen to the same music, or you both like to play chess. Take advantage of the information you’ve got. Challenge him in to a game of chess or start a conversation about the bands you both enjoy.
Let me tell you a brief story to justify why ‘having things in common’ is so important. I was out the other day when I overheard 3 guys in their 20’s. One of them was saying, “I met this really cool girl I think I really like. She drinks Red Bull too!” The others seemed to agree with him. I stopped and stared at them before I burst out laughing. Excuse me? What does drinking Red Bull have to do with anything? Funny as it is, every detail counts!
Get to know his friends!
To win his heart, try to win his friends first. For men, friendship is very important. Take it for granted that he trusts his friends’ opinions, and he faithfully follows their advice. If there is someone that can influence him, it will be his friends. So, the sooner you get to know them and the more they like you, the more possible it is to be with him!
And if nothing works…
Well, you can check So Deep in Love to find someone else that’s worth your time!
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i really have a crush on a friend of mien but i found out that he loves another girl and he had a problem withe here and know i helped him to get back withe here now they are 2gther and i really do love him and i want him to feel what i feel for him so i really don’t know what to do :S i love him so much can u tell me what to do to get his attention and he asked me out withe some friends of him and mien 2 from the school but i didn’t meet them yet and i am so afraid that if i met him he will read what is in my heart and reed what is in my heart for him what should i do? i decided that i will be friends withe him tell the time comes and tell me!! what should i do to make him like me more ? and plz tell me what should i do on my email nour.mouhsen@hotmail.com
i cant stop thinking a bout him plzz some one hellp me
can someone help me please so much i like this one guy and he doesnt have a girlfriend i think and i does got broken up with someone in a day. who gets broken up in a day?so this one guy i like i want him to be my girlfriend.
please help me please. and also can any of u give me tips to look hot! please i have brown eyes and pale skin,black hair.
please help me i love him soooo much. also im 13. any ideas
thank u please respond.
I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3months, he told me that he loves me, we have sex about twice a month. He told me that his friend told him that I’m hot and beautiful that made him so pround. He keep telling me that what he has for me is more than sex or money, just be patient with him and his bz schedules then I’ll be happy with him. He only text me once or twice a day or just one short call to say hi. But his so passionate when we make love and so into me so why he refuse to see me more often? Please help I’m so confuse.
hey well i used to be in almost the same place as you…bt in my case he only had sex with me once n he juz left me….wat ur sayin it seems that u guys r only frends with benefits..in my opinion that is not a healthy relationship…why should u waste ur time with a guy that the onnly thing that he thinks is that ur prety n all that..u should a boy that will repect u n he wont b only havin sez with u or takin u out..thats my opinion
Thanks a lot Marlene, I don’t need him in my life.
YOUR A BOOTY CALL WOMAN, IGNORE THE TEXT MSGES HE GIVES YOU AND DONT ANSWER YOUR PHONE CALLS FROM HIM!!
hey,
in my opinion u shuld love dat person only who loves u but not ur body if he dont care about u den y shud u waste ur tym for him.
i can understand dat u love him very much but ok in dat case u do one thing if he dont care about u den make jealous of u means do make another boyfrnd and show him as if u r very normal after he left u dan he will understand the meaning of love if he really loves u otherwise he must b a shameless boy.
i hope my ideas wud help u to move fwrd in ur life leaving all da past memories.
i really like this boy but im only nine and he likes my best friend who is waaaay prettier than me and also she likes him what should i do?
Well be confident, if she’s prettier than you S0 WHAT!!! Be yourself and act like your prettier than her. Boys love it when you know your cute, This happened to me before. So, tell him That you’ll hook them up, that means you will talk to him and make sure you look your best when you see him but don’t push it, he will start to go for you , this trick will help you get his number and he’ll know that your kind and not all about yourself. Trust me it works honey! I hope for the best (and if they do go out, S0 WHAT! your nine you have PLENTY of time with boys
my opinion is that u should juz wait cuz i mean ur only nine n u have a long way 2 go dont worry ull find ur true love some day it might not b now bt u will find it one day..jus live ur life ..trust me love is sooo hard so if i were u i would juz have fun with my frends…(dont worry)
What this world is coming to for God’s sake like you said you are only NINE!
omq! im 16 and i`ve been in love with this quy since i was like 12. i`ve dated other ppl and i qet over him for a while. but everytime he smiles or walks by i fall in love with him all over aqain. i know he knows i like him. we`ve kissed and they were the most beaitful kisses ever. but nothin ever really happens between us. plus one time i confessed to him that i liked him and he said there`s a future. idk wen that future will happen. i`m truly and uncontrolably in love with him. idk wat else to do. i just hope that one day i qet the nerve to actually say I LOVE YOU!
ok i need advice && help here! im desperate! ive been looking all over the net for advice && i dont know what to do. well im six-teen && i have a crush on this guy that i’ve known for about two years. we talk all the time && im kinda the only one he talks to at school unless hes texting of course. lol. && hes the only one i talk to at school unless im texting. duh. lol. but ever since last year, i cant stop thinking about him && i keep having dreams of him but theres a few catches. 1; i have a boyfriend. 2; he used to be a druggie but he claims to have been clean for like two or three months. 3; i think hes kind of a player but he says hes not anymore so i dont know. 4; i dont know if he likes me like i like him. lately my feelings for my boyfriend are unclear. i just dont know anymore really. is it bad to have a boyfriend && have a crush? so please, someone help me! i dont know what to do. D:
hey my opinion is that u should think ur future with him…how is he?? do u really kno whos the real him??? ive meet alot of gurls that had pass throu that n the thing that they do is juz brake up with there bf n go out wit the other huy sometimes it does work but sometimes it doesnt
Hi Guys,
I have 15 steps only, and then your girlfriend will never stop thinking about ya, it is gaurantee, i even do that with Boys&Girls, and after 2 weeks they come to tell me “I love ya soo much, i have to tell ya the truth i can`t stop thinking about ya” and in some cases they emagine that i am kissing them and trying to spend a night with me, I got these steps cuz me too passed with them
what’s your steps? do you think it works if i try it on my bf?
heya,been wif this boy 4 3 months now, we been arguin alot latley , he finks i flirt wif boys nd all but i dnt , jus sum times it dnt ceem that he wants b wif me, what cud i doo to make him want me more?
Okay, so me and my guy friend started really liking each other at the end of last year. Then I had to move away and all he talked about was how it crushed him and made him sad I left. Now, I’m back and its a new school year. And he keeps talking to other girls and isn’t looking at me that way any more. And I still have feelings for him. But he’s just looking at me like the friends we use to be a long time ago and acting like we never had more feelings for each other. What do I do? ):
I really need some advice. I’m in high-school and I’m so confused about this one guy. I’ve known him since I was 5, even though we weren’t really friends until we were about 11, and I’ve fallen for him. Completely.
He’s the second guy I’ve ever liked, and this feels so different from the first time. I’d give anything to have him, I honestly would. I realised I had feelings for him about 3 years ago, and it’s just gotten worse and worse over time.
We were really close at one point, but he started to become more popular and the distance between us gradually widened. We’re still friends, but we don’t really talk much. I’m just too shy! I get so nervous and I make a fool out of myself. But he’s really sweet, funny and mature (when he wants to be)… and I absolutely adore him.
He seems to show quite a bit of interest in me, and I return it; but he’s like completely out of my league now and his friends aren’t so keen on me. I’ve never really been that popular.
Can someone please give me some advice? How can I cross the social boundaries and
get to him?
OMFG!!! I am so ready to kill my guy friend!!!! he told my crush that i like him*sighs* when he said it he gave me a small smile like this :, And I think i turned as red as can be.he makes my heart stops every moment i see him.*blushes*i am so scared to tell him that i like him my self!!PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
P.S i cant take rejection!!!
I’m in love with this guy from about a year , we started of as good friends wee used to talk everyday al night long , he always used to joke about getting a kiss from me . One day that happened , while we where kissing he asked me if I love him and I said yes I asked him back and he replied by I don’t know , the next day we both started acting really weird , then he started avoiding me not replying my msgs , not coming online , I told him that I love him , he replied with I under stand , and from that time I didn’t talk to him , he keeps on giving me those stairs I always catch him staring , he’s always around the place that I’m in I don’t know wat to do I really love him and he’s avoiding me I dunt wanna lose him :s
I really liked this guy for almost a year now but all i can do is to watch him from a far one time i had the chance to took a picture of both of us because he was a soccer player he was friendly & even asked for a high five from me twice. After that things went back to normal again me looking at him from a far i can’t get a chance to talk to him cause he is from a diff. course. His already a friend of mine in facebook & i know that when we would have a chance to bump into each other again i can already say Hi to him the problem is that i don’t what to do next my self-confidence is really low. How can i get his attention? please help me.
i have the same problem.
i met a guy last week he’s very nice and friendly with both start with friends then we decide to be BF & GF. i have feeling for him since fisrt time i met him i think i’m in love with him so much but i’m not sure if he has a same feeling or not and i’m too scare to ask him because i dont want him to walk away from me. we have alot in commom and i believe that he’s the only one for me.
so plase tell me what to do how would i know if he has a same feelings fo me or make him feel that way and how can i get his attention?
Giving a blog talk to beginner bloggers in the not-too-distant future, I’ll be pointing people in the direction of your efforts. Nicely put together dude.
i just joined the soccer team. on the boys team, there is a new boy to our school(lets call him will), he is very cute, very polite, really kind, but two years older than me.i am 14, popular in school, but quiet at soccer because i dont know any one. i have some acne, and 6 on a 10 scale body and face. i am not alloud to dress in really tight clothing, but i do what i can to look good. i dont where makeup to practice, and i wonerif i should. will doesnt even notice me. we had a game today, and on the bus, i didnt realy sit any where close to him. he kept talking to this girl that is realy not very nice or pretty. is there any way to make this boy notice me?
Hi, i am 17 and i am having a crush on a guy we meet at face book and we live at the same place we have seen each other twice in a crowded place and both times he start a short conversation, and i want him to really like me.
i neeeed your advice thx
Hi, I’am 21. I love a boy in age of 15.
We are from other country. We are other religion also. I want him to love me.
I need your advise.
hi priya i think you just have to get a new look and still be your self and be really nice to him with out annoying of course and without doing it too much just naturally dont make him feel that you are nervous make sure that you will be very confident and feel your beauty.
GIRLS HONESTLY, GROW UP AND THINK ABOUT GUYS LATER, YOU DONT NEED A GUY TO TIE YOU DOWN AND A GUY TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO OR WHAT NOT TO DO, WHO TO HANG OUT WITH…LIVE YOUR LIFE. KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM AND DONT TRUST GUYS EASILY, THEY WILL TRY TO USE YOU FOR SEX AND THAT SEEMS LIKE YOU YOUNGER GIRLS ARE JUST GIVING IT UP, KEEP YOUR VIRGINITYS LONGER UNTIL THE RIGHT ONE COMES ALONG THT YOU CAN TRUST AND HE ISNT GOING TO HURT YOU. GUYS ARE ASSHOLES AND LEAD YOU ON BUT THE MOMENT YOU FIND ONE WHO LOVES YOU GRAB HIM AND HOLD ON TO HIM BECAUSE THERE ARE VERY FEW GUYS THAT WILL ACTUALLY CARE OR MORE THAN YOUR BODIES.