Would you tell your boyfriend that you cheated on him? Well, in my opinion, sometimes lying is wiser than telling the truth. If you are really in love with your boyfriend the last thing you wish to do is to ruin his life! So think before you act! You have to ask yourself a lot of questions before you proceed with the “cheat thing”.
• Do I really love my boyfriend?
If you do love him, think twice before you sleep with the other man. If you are not sure about your love, then there is a problem in your relationship and you better find it!
• Do I have a problem with my sex life?
Have you already forgotten what the word “orgasm” means? If you have, then that will be a problem. Try to start the fire up again with your boyfriend: take a nice bath; give him a nice show with your naked body, try to seduce him! If he does not respond, then that’s his fault and you may proceed!
• Is my boyfriend related to, or does he know the person I am going to sleep with?
Let’s hope he is not. If he is, then run as away from him as fast as you can! Remember, if your boyfriend knows the person that you are about to sleep with, cancel the mission immediately!
• Are there any chances that my boyfriend may come in contact with that person?
You should be really careful! Do not sleep with a guy that you met at the club or the same restaurant that your boyfriend goes to. Don’t sleep with a man who participates in the same sports as your boyfriend. Be sure that they don’t have anything in common. And it’ll be a lot better if they live in a different city or country! Make sure that this “guy” meets all these requirements!
• Am I drunk?
OK! It’s time for you to check your integrity. How much vodka have you guzzled tonight? Start up with a few tests. Try to touch your nose with your hand in a single move. If you pass that test, go for the second one: try to walk an imaginary line; if you get through this, then you can think clearly. Something like when the police pulls you over and you don’t pass the breathalyzer! If not, step away from this man, he is just trying to take advantage of you.
• Have I taken the appropriate precautions?
That the last thing you want after this is a kid or a strange sickness! Whatever you do, make sure that you always have a condom with you so you can avoid bad accidents! Always remember that AIDS is still around and it does not give a break to anyone!
Cheating on someone is not a good thing, but if you ever are in such a situation (for example when you are on holidays with your friends, or in a professional trip), have these questions in mind. It is nice if you can avoid the “traps”, but one night stands are not a huge mistake. If you are in love with the new person you have met, then this is another story and the best thing you can do is to break up with your current boyfriend. Good luck with your new fling!