Comments on: Forbidden Love

By: Kera

Kera — Sun, 30 Oct 2011 11:43:47 +0000

I know how it feels..I really do
but here's sth that might help you please
please read the book "Brida" written by Paulo Coelho
it will help alot I promise
please read it

By: since_8019

since_8019 — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 15:11:41 +0000

I think it is better to go ahead with your friend and marry him. What is the point in cheating your husband . He may get hurt for a while but he also needs someone who loves him truly rather than stuck with someone who loves someone else. It will be selfish on your part to think only of yourself . Let your husband go and find someone for himself. That ways both of you will be happy.No one likes getting cheated . It is a horrible feeling. Honesty will be the best policy here.

By: Mannu

Mannu — Thu, 27 Jan 2011 06:27:42 +0000

look, i'm a girl. i personally believe that you shouldn't tell her. cause if you do you might trigger feelings which she might have been confused about earlier, which isn't what we want! i suggest that you stay away from them as a couple as much as possible. Hang out with you're bestfriend though, but while making sure that the girl isn't around. It's the best choice.. but it's for you to choose. Good Luck!

By: Sharla

Sharla — Sat, 18 Dec 2010 00:48:55 +0000

I am so glad I found this site. I am in love with an old high school friend. It took me a year to admit it to myselF. I told him this past February via email. We had a meeting a few nights after that and we avoided eye contact for a while. When our eyes did meet his were so big and dialted. He stood or sat near me in every meeting after that. He touched my hand or back every chance he got. The problem is that we are both married to other people. And he will not talk to me. He stares and always manages to sit or be with me but he will not talk to me. It got to the point where I felt everyone could see my love for him on my face. So I resigned from the committe so I did not have to be around him. However, he is still in my heart. I wish he would just tell me thaT he does not love me. Then I would have closure. Why would he act like he want me but not say anything to me? If we talked it out to rationalize it, We could possibly still work together on the community project.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Mon, 29 Nov 2010 06:52:15 +0000

Its actually really funny i read this because i have a simalar situation happening to me now. ive been in love with this boy for about four years now. during this time he has grown to be one of my best friends.ive learned to deal with it and weve been severly close since… eeek sucky part is one of my old best friends just came back into the picture after a break up and is now together with him. i watch them together every day and it tears me apart. besides the fact that we are no longer as close as we used to be.i couldnt ever bear to tell him i even like him nvm love him. its pretty hard but i dont want to make an ass out of myself and tell him the truth when i know he doesnt feel the same way. its forever a forbidden love. so what im saying to you is let them be happy even if it hurts you. if she likes you she will eventually let you know some way or another.

By: Lovely Girl

Lovely Girl — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 21:01:35 +0000

Open your eyes, open your mind (as says the song): this guy doesn't love you. He just desires you, love is a noble feeling and is not based on sex at the first row!

By: lili30

lili30 — Sat, 07 Aug 2010 00:22:02 +0000

I've been seeing this guy for about 3months, he told me that he loves me, we have sex about twice a month. He told me that his friend told him that I'm hot and beautiful that made him so pround. He keep telling me that what he has for me is more than sex or money, just be patient with him and his bz schedules then I'll be happy with him. He only text me once or twice a day or just one short call to say hi. But his so passionate when we make love and so into me so why he refuse to see me more often? Please help I'm so confuse.

By: Shalu

Shalu — Thu, 01 Jul 2010 17:54:37 +0000

Thant, I know what you are going through. I sympathise with your situation. I think you should tell her gradually; but it might be good to approach your friend first and find out of his real feelings for her. Then you can bring your feelings to "light."

I am having a similar problem. I am married; my husband and I live separtately though, because we are now constructing our home; however, recently I started talking to one of his friends, a very good friend of his, and we became very close, so close that we "hit the sack." I have fallen in love with him and I even told him so! This friend is not married, but has a girlfriend overseas. Now I am in a situation, because I think of him all the time. I really do care for him, and at the same time I don't want to hurt my husband. I too don't know what to do!!!!!

By: Download Digsby

Download Digsby — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 03:10:47 +0000

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By: Secret Keeper

Secret Keeper — Sun, 16 May 2010 00:41:25 +0000

I understand where your coming from. I was & still am attracted to my husbands best friend. Jokingly my husband always told me that that friend was the only one that I could ever be with. So one evening while visiting with his friend one thing lead to another. Afterwards I told my husband, he was mad. I now don't have any contact with his friend who I miss very much cause I consider him a good friend even before all of this. It become very strange between my husband & his friend for about a year, they are finally hanging out together again, but I am still a sore subject..