Relationships 
by Asdfing Team | on January 24th, 2011 | 
Many people are so fixed on finding their Mr. Right.
But what, and who exactly, is Mr. Right?Some girls are compelled to settle for Mr. Right now for all the wrong reasons. They just want to hook up with anybody, just for the sake of not being alone. Some think they are not good looking enough and if a guy is interested in them, then why not? Others opt for him because their biological clock is ticking fast. In the end, they end up losing him. They will then jump from one relationship to another, until they get fed up and feel like giving up on love.
I find this situation quite stressful and tiring, so I started to focus on my true Mr. Right. Some say it’s a pipe dream, and some say I’m disillusioned, but I don’t want to waste my energy on adjusting myself to each and every guy that comes my way.
My Mr. Right is quite simple. A guy who understands me and accept me for whatever flaws I have – good looks would be a bonus, too.
On my quest, I tried to make a list of the attributes I’d want my potential Mr. Right to have
. So, I talked to my male friends, and a clearer figure of Mr. Right formed in my mind. I have grown up with my friends, emotionally and intellectually. So, my Mr. Right should not only understand me, but he should also share the same ideals with me.
It’s best to start out as friends and slowly get to know him better. This way, no strings are attached and everything is civil. I do not want unnecessary break ups and all the hostility that follows after that.
Finding Mr. Right works like a magnet, and both ways, too. If he truly is right for you, then you should be right for him too. You are both inexplicably attracted to each other and appreciate each other for all the little things too.
When at last I do find him, I will focus on him alone and stop wondering about others and if they were right for me. We’ll enjoy each other’s company and finally fall in love.
But, there’s no rush after all. I prefer to take it slow because I know that when I find him, I will spend the rest of my life with him. So girls, please be patient. You would not want to wear out your heart. Try to bond with the person first and find out if he is who you really want to be with, before jumping into a relationship with him. It is surely worth the wait.
But remember, finding Mr. Right is not about sitting on a park bench and waiting for that magnetic attraction. Act on it because he might pass you by and you will never know unless you make the move in getting to know him better. I believe in destiny and I also believe that you make your own destiny -not fate- so, go forth and find your Mr. Right.
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