Hey, what’s going on here? What’s wrong with you, ladies? We can’t do anything without asking your permission? Well, that’s enough! Guys, feel free and enjoy your life! If the woman of your life pressures you too much, then she is not the”one”, and of course… not the only one!
Are you tired with your girl? Is she asking the same things every day? Does she force you to do things that you don’t want to? Does she hate your friends? Does she hate your computer? I am sure that these questions can never be answered. However, they can be avoided, simply by not listening to them! I don’t know what’s wrong with us, but we are too damn afraid of losing our girlfriends. Be sure that our ladies have the same fear too!
Let’s see the “friends problem”. If she hates your friends:
The only thing you need to do is to explain to her how close you are to your friends, and how much you love them. Of course, don’t forget to mention that your friends are one of the reasons you are together! If she still has a problem and still says things like, “Are you going out with your stupid friends again?” then just leave her; run fae away from her – she doesn’t love you, and she is with you just because she has no one else at that time. But don’t worry. Someone’s trash might be somebody else’s treasure. Sooner or later, she will find someone to make her dreams come true.
On the other hand, if that woman loves you, she will understand you and she will think twice before saying something about your friends again. However, I’d understand her criticism in some cases. For example ,if your friend has about three weeks to take a bath… or, if your friends start to give her orders while you are watching soccer or football or basketball such as: “Honey! Bring us some more beer; honey! Bring us some water; Honey! Bring us something…” You‘d better take care of your friends before she starts roasting, cause she has the right to speak!
Let’s see the “Computer problem”.
Can you remember how many times she has asked you to go and hug her at the same time you were about to snipe someone at Counterstrike? Or, how many times she has asked for a kiss when you were about to score at Pro Evolution Soccer? How about the times you were about to receive a great loot from World of Warcraft and she asked for a hug because she wanted you that much?
Exactly like before, conversation is the key word. Try to explain to her that gaming or surfing is your hobby, and if you don’t react when she asks you something it’s because you are concentrating on something else; it’s not that you don’t love her. If she does not understand, try to do the same to her when she is watching her favorite TV show. Then explain to her that it is exactly the same thing! If she doesn’t respond to that, then its time to become deaf! Exactly like before, run away from her, because you will never be the perfect couple! She does not care about you!
But don’t overdo it! I am talking about normal stuff – if you are sitting in front of your computer for 15 hours in a row, day in, day out, then she has the right to speak and no one will be around to save you. You won’t have any friends left for that! (Basically, too many hours on your computer equals no time for real friends indeed!)
No matter what your differences are, just try to communicate with your significant other. If she still has a problem, then it’s not your fault anymore. The faster you get away from her, the better life you will have. After all, there are so many females around that are waiting for you! There are more fish in the sea…
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