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Christmas Alone ?

Christmas Alone
Alone this Christmas? Time to take advantage of it!You don’t have to worry; there are plenty things to do, and of course, many places to visit!The first thing you need to do is something for yourself! Go to your hairdresser for a new look. You’ll feel great, and ready for a new Christmas adventure. You don’t need to stop here, it’s shopping time! Get a new wardrobe, buy a lot of new stuff – this new style will make you feel a lot better!

Don’t spend your time preparing a Christmas table – take a nice bath with hot water; make a great atmosphere with candles, put nice music on, and go wear your new clothes! Enjoy the time you will stay home because soon, you’ll gave to go out!

Check your catalogs for some fine bar-restaurants. There you will meet a lot of people, believe me – you will not be the only “single” one! Take your place at the bar; don’t choose the table. I know tables are more comfortable, but at the bar you will be able to talk with your new acquaintances. If not, don’t worry – the day is still young.

Now it’s time to rest a bit! We don’t know if you met any new people yet, but in any case, go back home, drink some good wine and get ready for the night! It’s PARTY TIME!
We are sure that you heard of a lot of great clubs, yes, yes you go clubbing! Wear your new clothes, do your hair, be sexy! Stamp out on the dance floor. Now it’s time to flaunt your “talents” – the place will be full of new faces – just go close to the person you would like to know better! Don’t get angry if someone spills their drink on you, this might be a destiny game for you to meet each other!

The night is over; it is time to return home, but this time, not by yourself! Invite the people you met for a drink, make nice conversation, and after that, beautiful sleep from a full day!

There are of course more things you can do, we only suggest some ideas. The point is that you don’t need to lose Christmas spirit! Remember; there are always many people around that wish to be with someone exactly like you! Go out and meet them!

Merry Christmas!


 
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  1. tzitzi Tuesday - 18 / 12 / 2007 Reply
    That's great!!!!You gave some awesome tips here!!! Thank you!
  2. esfsf Sunday - 23 / 12 / 2007 Reply
    easier said than done
    • me Saturday - 25 / 12 / 2010 Reply
      I know. It is.
  3. Cherry Monday - 24 / 12 / 2007 Reply
    I don't think that it's hard to do all these things.. all you need is to be a bit confident:)
  4. Discount Perfume Wednesday - 07 / 01 / 2009 Reply
    I second this article. Even though there may not seem like there's many people who are spending Christmas alone, there are. You just got to go out looking for it. If you just sit at home on your butt and do nothing that's what you will yield. The demand is there it's just that everyone just stays at home.
  5. Chklate Saturday - 21 / 11 / 2009 Reply
    i just wish they had a camp for singles who have no family or nothing to do on christmas. i mayself, do not want to impose on friends and all. i lost my mom on july 20, 2009, and i'm an only child. so i have no family, it was just me and my mom. and i know friends are going to want me to come over, but i know they only invite me b/c they feel sorry for me. i wanted to go on a cruise, but you have to pay the price for 2 when it's only one person going! that really sux! i just wish someone had a weekend "bereaved and lonely singles" camp for the holidays. it would truly be perfect for this holiday b/c its' on a friday and we have the entire weekend. who knows! maybe i'll create a camp for lonely singles on christmas or the holidays! for now, whatever!
    • asdf Monday - 23 / 11 / 2009 Reply
      Chklate.. I totally agree with you. If there was such a camp.. I would be there for sure as well :P. I had a couple of friends hu had nuthing to do too earlier but most of them are couples now and I am pretty much all alone on christmas too. If you do setup a camp, let me know
    • cpd0713 Thursday - 26 / 11 / 2009 Reply
      Chklate, so sorry for your loss. im a mom who will be without my adult children because they will be with my ex-husband's family. that hurts too. maybe you can be my kid for the day, even if via email. i totally understand that you dont want to be at friend's house. i feel the same way. i would rather be home, because I am embarrassed that i will not be with my own family on christmas day. God bless you and me!
    • Rita Wednesday - 09 / 11 / 2011 Reply
      I wish to go for cruize too, but to pay for 2 is too much...
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  7. Holi Monday - 07 / 12 / 2009 Reply
    Good article! Great ideas! Thank you. Being alone for the holidays once or twice in your life is ok, it might even be fun, but if it becomes a recurring theme in your life, it is a very big problem. As sentient beings we need to be needed -- to know that we matter to someone. If you are alone for the holidays, repeatedly, the message is that you don't actually matter to anyone, and that is devastating. It is essential to reach out and connect with people who need you as much as you need them. If you do not have the love and support of a healthy extended family, it is crucial to connect with people who care about you and who need & want your company as much as you them. Whether you have no family or are simply missing a vital relationship in your extended family circle, a more complete extended family will provide you with a more powerful support system. Try CreatingExtendedFamilies.com It matches adults platonically to create surrogate extended family relationships.
    • renee Sunday - 07 / 10 / 2012 Reply
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  8. Kitty Wednesday - 09 / 12 / 2009 Reply
    My situation is a bit different. i have family but I have been studying and working away from home for many years. it's no point to spend money to go home as there's no christmas in my country anyway. but being alone here for Christmas is a bit lonely and especially all those christmas lights, trees and music surround. not sure whether will really dinner out alone for chritmas eve as still worried looking stupid...
    • Michael Carter Saturday - 24 / 12 / 2011 Reply
      Hi Kitty, I am working in London and wont be able to fly home either. If you feel like a coffee over Christmas and have a fun chat, let me know. Would be my pleasure to take you out. Best, Mike. PS: I am based in London. Propose coffee around Harrods.
  9. Ruth Thursday - 10 / 12 / 2009 Reply
    It looks like I too will have to spend Christmas alone this year. Since my Dad died, my sister has fallen out with me and sent me nasty texts saying nobody likes me. I was really hurt by this...they were sent in conjunction with my niece, after a misunderstanding that wasn't my fault. I tried to clear it up but my sister was so horrible, and a friend leapt to my defence. She is even more annoyed now and hasn't spoken to me in months. My Mum has just told me my sister doesn't want me to go for the traditional Christmas lunch at her place, and doesn't want to buy me a present. My Mum is lonely after my Dad died and doesn't want to create waves in case she is excluded too. Can anyone give me any advice? I would really appreciate it.
    • cpd0713 Friday - 11 / 12 / 2009 Reply
      Dear Ruth, Im so sorry for the loss of your Dad and what you are going through at this time of year. I have a few thoughts on your post, hope you don't mind. Many families have problems, it's not unusual. Is there any way that you can write your sister a letter or email to apologize and tell her you love her and wish the family could be together on this special holiday (and just move forward and not bring up the past.) If she is not receptive, is it possible to see your Mum either before or after the traditional lunch? Good luck, God Bless and Merry Christmas. xoxoxo
  10. Tim Friday - 11 / 12 / 2009 Reply
    This seems so much easier said than done. Eversince Thanksgiving, I have been down. My wife and I have separated after 25 years of marriage, I turned 50 on 11/30 and I'm alone for the first time in my life at Christmas. Eventhough I have two great parents and a daughter, there is nothing like having friends and family around. The problem is because of my indiscretions, have no real friends other than those my ex and I formed. I will see my daughter on Christmas, but only for a bit. I miss my home being decorated and the smell of the cooking...I feel so alone and it's hard.
  11. JMA Wednesday - 23 / 12 / 2009 Reply
    This is great advice. I think I am going to a) wake up and have breakfast somewhere b)go see a movie and c) head to a hotel for a few drinks. If not I'll probably do the volunteering thing (since I'm kinda broke at the moment).Helping those who are less fortunate than me will remind me of all the great things I DO have. Christmas is just a day anyway. It's sad that there's so much societal pressure that makes us feel so overwhelmed and like being alone on Xmas is such a big deal. I hope all of you enjoy your Christmas. Heck even if u decide to sleep through it. Some of you have probably worked your butts off this year and need the rest anyway. Whatever you do please don't feel sorry for yourselves.Don't let this one day take away from all the great things you DO have during the other 364 days in the year.You are all amazing no matter what anyone tells you or makes you believe! Eventually u will reunite w/ your families or create new ones. :) I wish you all the best. Please do the same for me! Oh and please invite me to the familiyless Christmas camp if anyone creates it. haha. Happy Holidays! :)
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  16. Deej Wednesday - 22 / 12 / 2010 Reply
    Definitely easier said than done. Not everyone lives in bustling towns with day/night life. Some of us live in smaller towns where all there are are some food chains, mom and pop shops, a school, and families. If you're not out with family, there's quite literally nothing to do. Yes, I could always drive an hour away to the big city to go "clubbing" but I'm only 5'0 105lbs and it's not really safe for me to go to the big city alone. I could very easily be mugged or dragged into somebody's vehicle or a dark alley. I don't have money or time to "go on a trip". Now, if you had any tips of what to do while at home that isn't completely depressing, that would be great.
  17. A Friday - 24 / 12 / 2010 Reply
    Don't take the random drunk people back to your place afterwards!! Who known who or what they could be!!
  18. Babaloo Tuesday - 15 / 11 / 2011 Reply
    I decided that last christmas was going to be the last christmas that I would spend alone. I have just looked at all the comments above and I have a suggestion, and please see this as an adventure. I live in south east London and we can all agree to meet at a designated place, at a designated time, say early on christmas eve. Every one would have to bring a contribution towards christmas e.g. drink, cake, fruit and nuts, wii console etc..You would also have to bring enough change of clothes for a week because of new year. If you are wondering where you would all stay it would be at my flat, which would be packed but it would be a lot of fun so bring a sleeping bag. This could be the first singles camp. We could all go out together over christmas and celebrate the new year. We can do this every year staying in different locations. Please reply all those who are interested so we can perfect the idea because we haven't got long
  19. Andi Tuesday - 20 / 12 / 2011 Reply
    None of you mentioned that most places will be closed on Christmas Day. I wonder what you could do then?
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