Relationships

Women are from Venus, men are from Mars; that’s what they say! We often find ourselves fighting or just disagreeing with each other, relationship or not, because of irreconcilable differences between the two genders. It’s like we just don’t get each other – what in the world are they talking about, and why can’t they understand? The explanation might be a lot easier than we think.

I’m sure that many readers will protest to all this, but I’m just talking about the primitive “bootstrap” differences between men and women. You can’t battle primitive instincts or biology; we’re all hard-wired the same way, which is practically the way of the jungle – this hard-wiring really makes it tough for both genders to get along in today’s society.
Here are just a few of the major differences between men and women:

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Many men think that women blow them off because the girls are stuck-up, high maintenance and only look for men with cars, money and power. That’s not always the case, though. Here are a few reasons why your pick-up tactics and techniques really aren’t working.

- You just come on too damn strong. This is a major turn off – you try to be “creative” and “straightforward” – that’s intimidating and downright scary. Imagine you just arrived at a bar, and you see a guy trying to hit on your girlfriend. What pick up line and tactics would be enough for you to want to punch him in the face? That is coming on too strong. Many guys don’t get that this is one of the main things you have to avoid. Subtlety is best, and it works too – keep it simple!

“My boyfriend is insanely jealous.”

“My girlfriend tracks my every move.”

“My husband thinks I’m sleeping around with all his friends.”

“My fiancee thinks I’m interested in other girls.”

How many times have you heard all this, or said them yourself?

Here are ways to deal with and handle jealousy within your relationship.

- First and most obvious, talk about it. There’s no better way than to find out why your partner is jealous. It could be because they are so deeply in love with you, and not because they think you are doing anything wrong.

All couples come to conflict. It’s just not possible to avoid it; no matter how much in love you are, or how well you get along or how much you care about each other, we’re all bound to come to rifts in our relationships. It could be anything from just a simple mix-up, to a severe disagreement. But don’t fret! It doesn’t have to be as bad as you fear. It’s not that hard to resolve relationship conflict.

- You first of all must understand that you are two different people, no matter how alike you are, and it’s practically impossible to be on the same page all the time. Until direct brain connection is invented, we’re unfortunately going to have to accept the fact that we’re going to have separate ideas from everyone else in the world!

Did you know that in Ireland, on February 29th of leap years, it’s a tradition for women to actually ask men to marry them? Why are women so keen on marriage, though? What’s a signature, a notary public and a piece of paper have to do with love and life? Turns out that men and women have a totally different idea of what is important in marriage to them.

- Women need to live and feel that extra romantic step. Truth be told, apart from discussing having children together, a marriage proposal is just about the most romantic thing a woman can think of – this is why there are all these stories of extravagant and crazy proposals, and not just the normal, perfectly romantic fancy-restaurant-down-on-one-knee stories.

When our partners break up with us, we feel lost. We feel like a big part of us has died inside. It’s not wrong to feel bad. It’s healthy, and reminds us of the fragility of life and our own humanity.

Here are some simple things that will help you get over your breakup, and start enjoying being single.

- Embrace it. The more you try to forget the things that happen and purposely put them out of your mind, the more you beat yourself up for feeling bad. You think it’s wrong and try to change your feelings. It’s not, though. It’s fine to mourn. You must do it, and feel the grief so you can finally get over it. It’s a normal process, and necessary so we can get over things.

What guy does not dream about being able to seduce beautiful women? On some level, all men want to have women find them attractive and appealing. We all want to feel confident about our ability to make a woman feel attraction towards us, and this is really what discovering how to seduce a woman is really all about. Sure, there are techniques and tricks that some guys use.

But what will really help you out the most though, is realizing that seduction is all about intense sexual attraction. When you can trigger enough attraction in a woman, then seducing her becomes relatively simple and easy. You won’t have to bog yourself down with trying to learn a whole bunch of routines and techniques.

Here are 4 tips on how to seduce a woman that will lead to YOUR success when it comes to seduction:

Sometimes, we feel like it’s a terrible task for us gals to keep our guys in check. They seem to grow bored easily, be afraid of commitment, and tend to cheat on us. We feel insecure, inferior, and awful about ourselves and our relationships. However, don’t fret! It’s not hard at all to give your man the things he needs to be happy and, keep him faithful and with you!

- Give your man freedom. I know this may sound like the opposite of what you’re trying to do, but trust me. At the first sign of “enclosure“, a guy will want to bust his chains and set himself free.

Sometimes we need to sit back and look at our relationships, no matter how easy or tough they are, in a different light. Add a bit of humor into the mix! After all, why should we always take things so seriously? Here’s some funny quotes on relationships that will hopefully bring a smile to your face, and give you a humorous look on the bright side of things. Enjoy!

I want a real relationship; not a Facebook one. – Anonymous

A lion wouldn’t cheat, but a tiger wood. – Anonymous

There come times when we are just left speechless. When what we feel is so strong, that we can’t even dare to think of trying to put it into words; whether it be for family, friendship, romance, your new found love or your life partner. Sometimes, we just let the greats speak for themselves: they’ve already put those wonderful feelings into words, which live on through their own personal quotes. Enjoy.

Love me when I least deserve it, because that is when I really need it. – Swedish proverb