“When you are in a relationship and it’s good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete.”
But, when you find that man worth crying for, the one that will leave “footprints on your heart”, is there any way to make your relationship last as long as possible?
Besides love, some of the best relationships are also based on friendship. It’s wonderful to also be friends with your spouse. One way to achieve that is to have fun together! Here are some things you can do to have fun with your boyfriend in case you live together or you have invited him to spend the night at your place.
·Prepare dinner together.
If you are one of those people that don’t enjoy cooking and prepare dinner just because you have to eat, or to please your boyfriend, cooking with him will give you a whole new perspective on cuisine! Experiment with different ingredients and recipe methods, and don’t hesitate to start a food-fight. At the end, the last thing you will care about is the mess in the kitchen. Just remember to have some Chinese take-out phone numbers handy!
·Buy him a present and hide it somewhere in the house.
Buying presents is always nice. But instead of just straight-out giving it to him, you can hide it somewhere in the house and give him clues about how to find it. For example, the first clue that you ll give to him could be a note that says: “You can find the next clue, taking you closer to your present near a “hot” place” (meaning the oven).
You can find the lyrics of your favorite songs and start a singing competition. If you have a karaoke in your house, that’s even better. Don’t worry if you don’t have a nice voice. The worse both of you sound, the better! You may make enemies out of your neighbors that can’t sleep because of your crooning, but you will have the time of your life!
·Put on his clothes, make him put on yours and burst into dance!
No, you don’t have to be drunk for that. Just do it! You will start laughing as soon as you see him with your clothes on and so will he. Then, the dancing part can only make you feel totally free.
In other words tell him that you have come up with a haircut style that might be just perfect for him! Claim that you have taken some stylist classes if you have to (in case he doesn’t buy it) and tell him the truth as soon are you are finished with his head.
You can also volunteer and make him cut your hair. Anything close to the print outs with awesome haircuts you’ve made would be just great.
Just make sure you have some extra money to go to your own stylist the next day.
Even if you are in the mood to laugh or you have some unused tissues; if you wanna scare him or just hide in his arms, a must if you stay at home with your boyfriend is to watch a movie. Although it can be done alone, nothing is compared to your remarks during the movie or his review after it’s finished.
No matter if you are the “intellectual know-it-all” snobby type of a person who only plays trivia games or “video game geek” kind of couple; the truth is that playing any game will make you feel like a kid again. After all, who said that hide-and-seek or pillow fight is just for children?
·Take a bath together.
This is so relaxing after a difficult day… it will make your stress go away! Place candles around the bathroom and scatter flower petals everywhere. After the bath, offer to give him a back massage. It will not only make him feel great but it could spice things up!
·Play games between the sheets.
Who said sex can’t be fun? You can arouse your lover by sensual erotic fantasies. Try to seduce him by surprising him with a sex game in bed. It’s almost impossible not to indulge. There is a large variation of power-games for couples (some of them are: Doctor/patient, teacher/pupil, boss/secretary) all you need to have are the appropriate outfits and a lot of imagination for the role playing.
·Drink coffee and talk about stuff!
This is a great thing to do in the morning. Talk to him about anything that bothers you, even about your colleague’s weird habits (don’t think that men frown upon gossip – in fact, they love it!) Tell him about the weird news you happened to hear on the radio coming home from work. What more, tell him some funny and embarrassing stories from your childhood. This is a way to help him open up, too – it’s also a great way to begin your day!